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Are you cleaning your sex toys wrong?
Whether you’re using sex toys with a partner or solo (btw May is Masturbation Month, enjoy), or both, you’ve probably wondered at some point whether they’re actually clean. Like clean-clean . We went straight to the source, the iconic sex educator and owner/founder of Spectrum Boutique , Zoë Ligon, to find out.* Q: How do […]
Polyamory and open relationships: should you try ethical non-monogamy?
If your best friend’s sister isn’t raving about it, then your sister’s best friend probably is. But is it something anybody can try once (and only some people will actually like and want to try again, like kombucha), or are there some situations in which it really shouldn’t be attempted at all? And if you […]
How to travel with sex toys
You know that moment in Home Alone where Catherine O’Hara is sitting on the plane to Paris and she finally figures out what she left at home? And it’s the worst thing she could’ve possibly left at home? That’s how we feel when we forget to pack our sex toys. Like we may as well […]
How to fight fair
Arguments happen when you’re in a relationship. It’s totally normal and healthy to disagree sometimes, and it’s a good sign if you both feel comfortable and safe to express yourselves. According to Dr. Rachel Needle, Psy.D., licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist, “It is the way we argue that makes all the difference.” Of course, […]
Sex in the news: March edition
We’ve rounded up our 10 favorite articles about sexual health and birth control from the past month to make it really easy for you to get the facts on the things that could affect your health. 5 Things Your Gynecologist Wants You To Stop Doing ASAP (mindbodygreen) Practicing good vaginal and vulvar health may not […]
Ask an expert: Why is sex in the water so dry?
If you’re anything like us, weather that hits the low 50s is feeling dead tropical to you right about now. The spring fever is REAL. But before you head out on spring break ( or adult spring break ), we’re here to answer your most pressing vacation-related sexual health questions. We sat down with our […]
The 11 best places to have sex in public
There’s just something so juicy and thrilling about having sex in a public (or semi-public) place—the feeling that you’re doing something transgressive, that you’re dangerously close to getting caught, that you just couldn’t keep your hands off of each other long enough to get home. Of course, we don’t condone doing anything illegal! Why would […]
How to get in the mood when you’re not feeling so frisky
We understand. Some days you get home from work and all you want to do is curl up in the fetal position on the bare floor while someone feeds you soft crumbs of white bread like you’re a baby bird. We’re here to tell you it’s totally normal and not a problem at all for […]
Sex in the news: February edition
It’s a scary world out there, filled with fake news. And it’s not just about politics. In fact, a bipartisan group of scientists recently looked at the 100 most popular health articles of 2018 and determined that 75% of them were misleading or at least contained some false information . Don’t worry, Bedsider’s got your […]
7 sex positions for when you’re exhausted but still DTF
Are you slowly being crushed by the pressures of adulting? Wading through life like you’re fording a river on the actual Oregon Trail? Drowning in your own life choices like Buttercup and Wesley in the quicksand of the Fire Swamp? No problem! Who isn’t? We’re here to tell you that crippling fatigue doesn’t have to […]
