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Just can’t get enough: Focusing on foreplay
Sometimes talking about foreplay feels more like bore-play. It gets technical. ( 21 minutes of foreplay greatly increases the odds of women having an orgasm. ) It gets mechanical. ( Touch his frenulum like this! ) It gets repetitive. (Find a ton of foreplay tips and techniques here and here and here and here and […]
The shy girl’s guide to breaking the ice
Are you brazen and able to flirt with anyone, anywhere, as if it’s your job? To you we say, carry on Admiral Audacious! Or are you more of the blushing bashful type? Good news: Your natural flush and coy stance is kind of hot. So, we’re not here to change that about you. (We always […]
Family feud: What to do if your parents hate who you’re dating
What do you do when your parents can’t stand your significant other? Sneak around and lie? Break up and resent them for meddling? Force all of them to interact and see just how awkward you can make family functions? The parents-vs.-your-S.O. scenario is pretty common. Fortunately there are things you can do to improve that […]
Top 5: Unboring sex positions to heat up your weekend
Interested in some new moves? Here are five we recommend when you want to add some ooomph to your O. You might not love every single one, but hopefully you’ll use birth control , get it on, and have fun trying them out. On The Edge (also known as the Furniture Position ) Skill level: […]
Mismatched libidos: What to do when you want different things (in bed)
You’re unstoppable, but your partner’s sex drive has flatlined. Or it’s the reverse and you’re not feeling any fire-in-the-pants. Or you love sensual massage marathons, mood lighting, silk sheets, and 48 minutes of foreplay, but they are more of a wham-bam-lets-do-it-in-my-Dodge-Ram kind of person. Those scenarios can be frustrating and confusing, so we’ve collected a […]
Taking it outside: How to have safe sex outdoors
Having sex in the great outdoors is daring, adventurous, and wild. It’s also illegal in some places, so before you go down this road, make sure the coast is clear. (And make sure you’re not breaking the law.) Camping Find a campsite that has some privacy. We recommend avoiding popular family spots with kids and […]
Caught having sex? Here’s how to dismount gracefully
Actually, we trust that you can stop and get your clothes back on without any help from us. But, if someone does walk in on you having sex—and either you’re mortified or they are—that’s where we can offer some advice. If your roommate finds you using the kitchen not for cooking Will they tease you […]
Just do it: How to feel confident walking into a sex shop
Maybe it’ll be the display of penis-shaped candy near the cash register. Or the shockingly large reproduction of a male appendage. Either way, you’re bound to see something you’ll never forget the first time you go into a sex shop. If you haven’t made it into one yet, and you want to go, here are […]
In search of the G-spot
Mermaids, elves, and the Tooth Fairy are not real. Does your G-spot fall into this mythical category too? While everybody’s heard of it and it’s supposed to be a magical source of epic orgasms, nobody ever seems to know exactly where it is or how it works. And now a bunch of scientists say it […]
Pay attention to me! How to deal when the focus isn’t on you
“I love it when my significant other ignores me,” said no one ever. That’s why the silent treatment is such an effective form of torture. We love to be the object of desire, not the object of disinterest, so here are a few ways to handle it if you’re feeling a little too far off […]
