Cozying up to 2013: It’s going to be a hot year
Can you feel it? That exciting sense of possibility that comes with a brand new year? Will you fall in love? Hook up on NYE ? Travel the world ? Get a promotion? Get some new sex toys ? Graduate? Makeover your bedroom ? Make it to yoga every day in January? Drive less? Kiss […]
Fooling around with feng shui: How to turn your bedroom into a smoldering den of sex
Even if you’re having adventurous sex all over the place , bedrooms are still where the magic happens the majority of the time. Does yours have a let’s-get-it-on vibe? Here’s how to use feng shui –the ancient Chinese art of creating spaces that foster harmony, health, and good fortune—to turn a drab bedroom into a […]
What Santa does the other 364 days: Getting to know Mrs. Claus
He gets most of the attention while she’s usually in the background baking cookies , pouring cocoa, and mending his famous red suit. But don’t be fooled by her sweet demeanor. Vixen was named after Mrs. Claus , if you know what we mean. Here’s how she heats things up this time of year. His […]
Frisky Friday Top 5: Erotic everyday activities
You’ve been going there forever and every time it was meh . Until that one time. When it set your pants on fire. Sometimes a random outing with the person you’re sleeping with can turn the most average place into one that’s full of sexually-charged energy. These are our favorite places where that has happened. […]
How to make sex safer in 4 simple steps
Most of us have said, or heard a friend say, at one point or another “Hello birth control—goodbye condoms!” I get the thought process behind this—but as a healthcare provider for young women, it worries me. Here’s why: young women have the highest risk for accidental pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Double trouble… A […]
Frisky Friday Top 5: Where to have YOLO sex
Every so often, it’s good to shake things up, leave your bedroom behind, shed inhibitions, and have the kind of sex you never, ever forget. Here’s our short list of where to have YOLO sex . If you try them, do use birth control and please don’t get caught in the act . Big Night […]
Just can’t get enough: Focusing on foreplay
Sometimes talking about foreplay feels more like bore-play. It gets technical. ( 21 minutes of foreplay greatly increases the odds of women having an orgasm. ) It gets mechanical. ( Touch his frenulum like this! ) It gets repetitive. (Find a ton of foreplay tips and techniques here and here and here and here and […]
Top 5: Unboring sex positions to heat up your weekend
Interested in some new moves? Here are five we recommend when you want to add some ooomph to your O. You might not love every single one, but hopefully you’ll use birth control , get it on, and have fun trying them out. On The Edge (also known as the Furniture Position ) Skill level: […]
Mismatched libidos: What to do when you want different things (in bed)
You’re unstoppable, but your partner’s sex drive has flatlined. Or it’s the reverse and you’re not feeling any fire-in-the-pants. Or you love sensual massage marathons, mood lighting, silk sheets, and 48 minutes of foreplay, but they are more of a wham-bam-lets-do-it-in-my-Dodge-Ram kind of person. Those scenarios can be frustrating and confusing, so we’ve collected a […]
Taking it outside: How to have safe sex outdoors
Having sex in the great outdoors is daring, adventurous, and wild. It’s also illegal in some places, so before you go down this road, make sure the coast is clear. (And make sure you’re not breaking the law.) Camping Find a campsite that has some privacy. We recommend avoiding popular family spots with kids and […]
