Bed-rocking, boot-knocking playlist: 9 songs to set the mood
Heart racing. Skin tingling. Breath catching. We’re talking about music. Sometimes when you hear a great song, it’s like you can feel it . That feeling’s not just in your head. Music can give you chills and goose bumps , just like sexual arousal can. It also triggers some of the same chemicals released in […]
How 4 common insecurities were invented, and what you can do about it
I remember learning in 8th grade that the “thigh gap” was supposed to be a good thing. I had never given thought the existence of space between my thighs—it didn’t seem like the type of thing that could be good or bad. Were people tired of obsessing over other parts of the female body and […]
It’s cold out there: Your winter reading guide to all things steamy
Looking to hone your sexpertise while you cozy up by the fire? Here are five recommended reads. For rolling up your sleeves : Girl Sex 101 is the essential book for “ladies and lady-lovers of all genders and identities.” This fun illustrated guide gives hands-on ideas for navigating anatomy, safer sex, better cunnilingus, communication, and […]
How to have a sex life when you live with your parents
How do you deal with sex when you’re living with your parents? It’s an awkward question—almost makes me cringe just to write it—but it’s one that about 32% of people between the ages of 18 and 34 may be asking themselves right now. Yup, that’s right: Almost a third of young adults live back home […]
Why dating deal breakers matter
My friend recently had drinks with someone new for the first time since ending a long-term relationship. She was nervous about the whole event, but mostly about one thing: His politics. So when he showed up to the café and started their hangout by disclosing whom he would not be supporting in an upcoming election, […]
Power Playlist: 10 songs to boost your confidence
We’ve already shared the best songs for every kind of break up , because we know what music can do for your mood . Music can also help you step out of your comfort zone and feel more powerful . (Ever feel like your favorite songs make for your best workouts? It’s a similar effect […]
Big moments with a little undergarment: A history of the thong
Love them or hate them, it’s easy to see why thongs are popular. They offer just enough coverage without adding visible panty lines to an outfit. With thong-sized panty liners and THINX thong period panties now available, thongs are more wearable than ever. And there’s no doubt that they have the potential to make a […]
The real deal about aphrodisiacs
The ancient Greeks, Romans, Chinese, and Indo-Africans all had a wide range of potions, roots, and weeds said to increase female desire and male performance. Sometimes called aphrodisiacs (after the Greek word for sexual pleasure and the goddess Aphrodite), these mythical substances were known not just for improving performance but for instantly overwhelming even the […]
5 myths about virginity, busted
What is a virgin? The word is generally understood to refer to someone who’s never had sex, but that leaves a lot of room for interpretation. Does oral sex count? If a woman only has sex with other women, is she a virgin? A woman who has only experienced forcible intercourse or rape is considered […]
How to speak lingerie: Balconette, bandeau, and bullet bras
We’ve demystified a few lingerie terms so you can try them out (and maybe have someone special take them off). Balconette What it is : A bra that’s cut straight across the breasts, giving them a lifted look as if they were on a shelf… a very alluring shelf . (It really shows off your […]
