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Who does that? Porn sex vs. real sex
We’re about to make your day. Here is a brilliant video that uses food to show the difference between porn sex and real sex. (You will never look at avocados, mangoes, strawberries, and Nutella in quite the same way.) We’re also about to offer some alternatives just in case mainstream adult entertainment doesn’t appeal to […]
Original bad girls? Getting to know Jezebel, Salome, and Lilith
Temptation. Seduction. Coercion. Demons. Dancing. Grisly deaths. There was never a dull moment for Jezebel , Salome , or Lilith . Some call them bad girls of the Bible. Others see them as historical icons that deserve reexamination. Whether you’ve read their stories as gospel or fiction, we think these women are fierce and fascinating. […]
Frisky Friday Top 5: How to scare the crap out of your date (on Halloween)
Hearts will pound. Muscles will tense. Goose bumps will appear. Breathing will become heavy. Are we describing fear or orgasms? Both induce an adrenaline rush, but for the sake of Halloween, this time we’re talking fright night/date night. (But here’s a piece on the big O because those are fun too.) Now, get ready to […]
Party sex. Drunk sex. Smart sex. Safer sex. Having it all.
Does the party season ever really end? No. It just gets more ambitious. This time of year, invites start to double. Then alcohol consumption doubles. Then our search for hangover cures doubles. That’s why it’s important to make sure you and your birth control can handle the festivities. Before the Party Make a plan with […]
Sexual fantasies and daydreams: Let your mind wander
There’s your external sex life that is physical and very real. Then there’s your internal sex life that takes place in your mind. For some, the internal stuff is a vivid realm filled with sexual exploration and imaginative settings, scenarios, and partners. Others barely fantasize at all. Both are normal. What does it mean when […]
Brave heart: How to ask for what you want (in bed)
Know why you should always ask for what you want in bed? Because you’re worth it. And you shouldn’t hold yourself back or make yourself small for any reason or any person. It might not be easy and you might not get everything you desire, but going for it has its own rewards inside and […]
Look, but don’t touch: What if you’re in a relationship and attracted to someone else?
It doesn’t matter how in love you are, how mature you are, or how much you enjoy sex with your partner. It’s pretty common to feel attracted to someone else even if you’re in a happy, healthy relationship. But when is the attraction natural and harmless, and when is it something more? Ask yourself these […]
Go ahead. Tell us how you really feel…
Sex. Birth control . Love. Lies. Breakups . Cuddling. Hookups . Hugs. Rock and roll. We bet you have an opinion on all these things. Or at least one hell of a story. That’s why this Friday we’d like to hear from you. Pick one question from our list—or all of them—and write your heart […]
Quick fixes and DIY remedies for getting it on
Sure, we love high tech, super modern conveniences when it comes to boot knocking and birth control . But we also love old-fashioned quick fixes and do-it-yourself remedies we can whip up at home like Betty Effing Crocker. Here are a few of our favorites for anyone who wants to get dirty. (We meant get […]
Nice and easy: The perks of slowing down
Warp speed can be fun. (Especially when it’s the do-me-now variety.) But downshifting can feel good too. Especially when you want to make your summer of love last as long as possible. Here’s how to put the brakes on and enjoy it. Slow down your… Foreplay. 21 erotic minutes of foreplay increase your chance of […]
