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Questioning your sexuality? Here are some things to keep in mind.
Some people have gone through the process of exploring their sexuality and feel satisfied that they know what they want and how they identify. For others, understanding and exploring their sexuality can be a life-long journey. Unfortunately, we live in a society where exploration outside the strict confines of heteronormativity is often discouraged. And for […]
Playing it cool this summer: How to navigate casual relationships
Casual dating can be super fun and exciting (and sometimes also frustrating and disappointing!). To keep things on the fun and sexy side of the line, there are a few things we recommend doing: Communicating your wants and needs You would think communication in casual relationships would be simpler and maybe even less crucial than […]
10 sexy conversation starters to heat up your weekend
One of the pitfalls of being in a relationship, especially a long-term one, is getting into a rut sexually. You might start to think that there’s no mystery left, that you’ve seen it all and done it all, but we’re betting that all you need is a little inspiration to get things going again. So […]
So…is this normal?
We’ve heard a lot of questions about sex and sexual health here at Bedsider, and a great many of them start with, “Is it normal…?” Not to skip to the last page of the book or anything, but the answer is yes. Whatever the question, the answer is that it’s normal and it’s all good […]
First date roundup: Our favorite articles about dating someone new
Dating is just the worst, and somehow it also has the potential to be the absolute best. There’s nothing quite like a first date to stir up a combination of excitement, dread, and a healthy dose of nausea. We’ve put together all our favorite articles about first dates to help make it a little easier. […]
7 ways to seduce your partner, inspired by weird stuff cats do
Whether you’re a cat person or not (and we think everyone is just one cuddle away from being a cat person), you have to admit that they’ve got a lot figured out. They sleep most of the day, bask in the sun, and do absolutely no work. So in the spirit of learning from the […]
Why you should be scheduling sex if you’re not already
Don’t listen to the haters who want you to believe that sex is only good when it’s spontaneous and that scheduling sex is unsexy. While the scheduling itself isn’t necessarily sexy, having sex is, which is the whole point of scheduling it. If you have a lot going on in your life or you just […]
Do you have a sexual aftercare practice?
Sexual aftercare is a concept that’s borrowed from the kink community, and it’s an important part of sex, whether the sex you’re having is kinky or vanilla. At its most basic level, sexual aftercare is just you and your partner(s) taking care of each other after sex, both physically and emotionally. What’s the point of […]
Have the best sex of your life in 2023 with these New Year’s resolutions
Here at Bedsider, we don’t believe in the kind of toxic “self-improvement” that gets shoved down people’s throats at the beginning of every year. Instead of thinking about shrinking or otherwise changing our bodies, we like to use this time to reflect on how we can bring more pleasure and intimacy into our lives. Here […]
Are my sexual fantasies normal?
Do you ever lie in bed thinking about what it would be like to have sex in public? Or maybe you daydream about getting frisky with a coworker. Lots of us fantasize about sex, whether our fantasies are about group sex or wild flings with celebrities or being restrained by a tentacle monster (looking at […]
