7 ways to turn someone down when you’re just not into it
Turning someone down can be hella awkward . No one wants to be mean, right? Most of us go through life trying pretty hard not to hurt other people’s feelings , and we all know that getting rejected never feels good. But you know what feels even worse? Being strung along and holding out hope […]
Do not disturb: 7 apps for better sex
Some experts say that smart phones take away from time with our significant others. But what if they could make sex better? Good news: they can! Here are seven apps that will actually help you keep it hot with your partner. 1. Find something new: Kindu Kindu (available for iPhone and Android) is like Tinder […]
Fitness for fooling around: Goddess Pose
We think you’re a goddess all the time, but if you really want to embrace how divine you are, try this powerful yoga move. It’ll strengthen your lower body and open up the hips and chest, stimulate the reproductive organs, and improve your respiratory and cardiovascular systems. It’s good for balance too, and some say […]
Yes, no, maybe: A trick to figure out what your boo is into
Much as we’d love to be mind-readers in the bedroom, figuring out what a partner is into can be tricky. Do you ask outright or hint around? Do you tell them what you’re into and hope they’ll do the same? The short answer: Yes! All of the above! When you’re learning what turns someone on […]
Swipe fatigue: How to take your dating game offline
Ten years ago, it would have sounded weird to talk about finding an alternative to online dating. Like, wouldn’t that just be regular dating? But these days it can seem like dating is all about swiping, liking, and messaging . Even in traditional dating spots like bars, everyone seems to be glued to their phones. […]
How can I learn more about female pleasure?
While masturbation—especially female masturbation—still seems to be a taboo subject, there are definitely ways you can educate yourself about it. OMGYes is a great place to start . It’s an online course that teaches you about the patterns of female pleasure, and it’s based on research with real women. You even get to practice what […]
6 tips for keeping it flirty in a long term relationship
When we think about flirting, we often think of getting to know someone new. You flirt to attract a mate , not to keep a mate, right? Wrong. Flirting can help stoke the fires of your attraction to your SO—and their attraction to you—when you’re in it for the long haul. But while flirting with […]
How to speak lingerie: Babydoll, kimono, and sleep romper
For the next time you want to get fancy in the bedroom, here are more items to consider adding to your lingerie collection. Try the following for sleeping, lounging, or slipping out of. Babydoll What it is : Kind of like a very short, seductive nightgown that’s often worn with matching undies. Usually the bust […]
Bed-rocking, boot-knocking playlist: 9 songs to set the mood
Heart racing. Skin tingling. Breath catching. We’re talking about music. Sometimes when you hear a great song, it’s like you can feel it . That feeling’s not just in your head. Music can give you chills and goose bumps , just like sexual arousal can. It also triggers some of the same chemicals released in […]
Guy’s guide to taking control of your sexual health
Repeat after us: Stressed sex isn’t good sex. Guy Nottadadi is here to share some of the things dudes can do to take control of their sexual health, especially when it comes to birth control. We’re talking condoms . We’re talking pulling out —especially as a double or triple measure. We’re talking the best, stress-free, […]
