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Is your sex life too penis-centric?
When you think about it, it’s easy to see how we ended up with an orgasm gap . From mainstream media to porn*, sexuality is often portrayed in a very penis-centric way. Within this viewpoint, it isn’t sex unless it involves penetration with a penis. And penile ejaculation is the goal and the finish line. […]
How to visit a sex shop with your partner in 6 steps
Trying something new in the bedroom can open up a whole new world of possibilities for pleasure and fun. But getting there can be a little tricky sometimes. Even the most confident and adventurous among us can find ourselves a little tongue-tied when it comes to sex. We’re here to walk you through one great […]
How to turn up the heat this weekend
1. Send a sexy message Too busy to actually have IRL sex of any kind this weekend? That’s okay, have the virtual kind instead. Sexting is one option , as is emailing (sexmailing?). If you need some dirty talk tips, we’ve got you covered . 2. Take your time If you know the art of […]
How to survive a heartbreak
It doesn’t matter who broke your heart or how long you loved that person, heartbreak is valid in all its forms. It could be a best friend breakup, a breakup with your partner of many years, or a breakup with someone you’ve only been seeing for a few months—come on in, you’re welcome here. Here […]
Sex toy roundup: Our 6 favorite articles on our favorite topic
Sex toys are one of our favorite things to talk about. They’re fun, they’re cute (and if they’re not cute, they’re probably amazing), they make us feel better—what’s not to like? Here are six of our favorite Bedsider articles about sex toys, our ride-or-die, our day one, our answer to “what would you grab in […]
What to do when you’re not happy with your sex life
It’s totally normal to go through phases where your sex life doesn’t feel as satisfying as you want it to feel. That could be because you want more sex than your partner does , because they want more sex than you do, because you’re not having the kind of sex you want, because you don’t […]
7 first date red flags you shouldn’t ignore
We really don’t believe in hard and fast dating rules at Bedsider. First of all, different things work for different people. Secondly, it’s better to be yourself from the beginning. If you follow rules that make you act differently than you otherwise would, you may not find out until you’re already in a relationship that […]
5 things you probably didn’t know about asexuality
It’s Pride month, and we’re continuing our celebration by talking about asexuality, which is too often overlooked in conversations about sexuality. Possibly because of that lack of conversation, lots of people are still in the dark about what asexuality is and what it means. That ends here. Here are 5 things about asexuality that might […]
Should you give your partner an ultimatum?
Inspired by what is certainly the worst show we’ve ever enjoyed, we are exploring the question that is now on everyone’s minds: should you give an ultimatum to your partner? (SPOILER ALERT) It didn’t really work out as planned for most of the couples on The Ultimatum , unless you count Madlyn and Colby or […]
Everyday things you can do for your partner that are actually super hot
It’s easy to forget how simple it can actually be to turn your partner on. You don’t need new underwear, candles, or even to practice your dirty talk skills . All you need is a willingness to do slightly annoying and/or challenging tasks. These are seven of our favorite everyday things you can do to […]
