Relationship perks: How familiar sex can be the hottest kind
New relationships are hot. There’s magnetic attraction. Kissing feels electric. Sex is like an adventure. In time, you two will grow closer in and out of bed, and that’s a beautiful thing. But what happens when the newness and excitement are gone? Can things stay hot when you’ve done it the same way for months? […]
It’s ok to love babies and be on birth control at the same time
We love babies. We’ll snuggle them; make them smile; wipe drool; sniff their yummy/sweet baby scent; bounce them in our arms for hours when nothing else will calm them; buy them funny hats ; change stinky diapers; and let them teethe on our clean fingers if Sophie the Giraffe isn’t around. That doesn’t mean we’re […]
BFF or Frenemy? What to do when you and a friend want the same guy
If you and your bestie both like the same guy, we’re here to warn you: There’s no easy rule of thumb for that one. If he’s truly the love of your life, how could you be expected to postpone your happiness? And if she’s destined to be with him, how will you get used to […]
Summer flings: You’re hot, he’s hot, the weather’s hot…
Summer has a way of making us feel good in our skin and that can lead to romance. If you decide to have a fling, here’s how to keep it sexy and safe: Diving in. Yes it’s a thousand degrees out, but don’t get busy in a pool, lake, ocean, or other natural body of […]
Fetish Friday: The kinkier side of sex
You’ve got a right to enjoy whatever turns you on. That includes sticking with the classics. (Hello, missionary position.) Or role-playing. (You pretend to be the Hollywood call girl and he’ll be your hot celebrity client.) Or embracing a fetish. (Go ahead and let him lick your feet. You might like it.) We’ll never judge […]
What’s good hookup sex? Birth control is used, you have fun, he has fun. In that order.
When you have sex in a committed relationship, it’s easy to understand why they call it making love. But, hot hookup sex has its place in life too. Both kinds of sex can make you feel alive and sexy. Both can bring out that amazing I-want-you-now lust. And both absolutely require protection against pregnancy and […]
Deal breakers: Does your relationship have a hurdle you can’t get past?
Being in love is awesome. It makes you feel like you can conquer anything. But in reality, even love doesn’t guarantee that you and he are 100% compatible. Most couples have at least one big issue where they don’t see eye to eye and if it isn’t addressed, it can ruin a good thing. Here’s […]
Get your motor running: How to jumpstart your sex drive
When things are good and you’re regularly getting turned on, you don’t think it’s ever going to happen. But it’s not uncommon to lack a little fire-in-the-pants from time to time. Could be depression or stress. Or you’re too busy to find the time. Or maybe your relationship has grown a little stale. And sometimes […]
The Frisky Friday Top Five: How to say vagina without saying vagina
Funny. Beautiful. Clinical. Awkward. Naughty. Natural. The v-word—and every slang term associated with it —evokes a lot of different things, but ooh la la, it’s fun to say. Here are some of our favorite terms for your honey pot. Close to the Real Word. Vajayjay, Vag/Vadge, Vagine, Gine, or Giney (those last three are pronounced […]
Foot fetish: What if your guy’s into your feet
First off, a clarification: Some guys are so in love with you that they’ll jump at the chance to paint your toenails or rub your feet. We’re not talking about them. Then there are guys who rely on your feet to get off sexually. We are talking about them. If your guy is showing A […]
