How to pick the right couples therapist for you and your partner
Couples therapy can be a challenging experience. Discussing the most intimate details of your life with someone you barely know is not easy, nor is confronting your role in harmful patterns in your relationship. But with the right therapist, it can also be a game-changer. Unfortunately, not all therapists are going to be the right […]
November 2021 horoscopes: Welcome to spicy season
November evokes lots of sense memories: cool, crisp air, the smell of mulled cider, and…spicy time in the bedroom? Well, it may not be an official holiday tradition, but this year, get ready for a hot, hot November. Read on to find out what’s in store for your sign in the coming month. Scorpio October […]
10 really good reasons to dump him
Don’t you think you have enough going on in your life that you don’t need to borrow trouble? If there’s a man nearby who is doing any of the following, we strongly suggest you give his place in your life a long hard think. He asks you, “What should we do for dinner?” He’s in […]
What to do when you don’t like your best friend’s partner
It can be really hard and sad when you don’t like your bestie’s new boo. For so many reasons. Because you want better for them, because you can’t hang out with them as much as you used to, because you feel like you’re keeping a big secret from them now. The temptation can be strong […]
5 ways to break the vicious cycle of fighting
You know how it is. You’re mad at your partner about something, so you’re snippy and passive aggressive (or whatever your go-to fight mode is), and then because you’re being a jerk, they get mad and double down on whatever thing they were doing in the first place that made you mad. And around you […]
7 things that sound dirty but are actually baked goods
If you’re like us, The Great British Bake Off (on Netflix as The Great British Baking Show ) is a balm to your soul that never gets old. It’s a warm bath when you have cramps. It’s a fluffy robe and thick socks on a cold morning. The only problem with watching and rewatching it […]
How to make time for (ahem…) self-love
When we’re swamped at work, overrun with responsibilities in our personal lives, stressed, and sleep deprived, often the first thing to get taken off the list is pleasure. Even if you find time for sex with a partner, you may not prioritize time for sex with yourself as much as you normally would. So here’s […]
How to move in together drama free
It seems like every movie that depicts a couple moving in together shows them unpacking in their cavernous new home filled with original details, playfully putting a dab of paint on each other’s noses, eating Chinese food (or sometimes pizza), and then having sex on the floor. If only we could all live such a […]
How to not break up on the side of the road
Road trips can be super fun—the snacks, the podcasts, the wind in your hair—what’s not to like? But spending many, many hours in a tiny space with your partner could also lead to some…issues, if you’re not thoughtful about your approach. Here are 10 hard-earned lessons that will help you along your way: 1. Don’t […]
What to do when your partner withdraws emotionally
Some people are more affected by the moods of the people around them than others, but even if you’re not a highly sensitive person , it’s totally understandable to be a little freaked out when your partner seems to be pulling away from you emotionally. But the fact is, they’re a person just like you […]
