The 11 best places to have sex in public
There’s just something so juicy and thrilling about having sex in a public (or semi-public) place—the feeling that you’re doing something transgressive, that you’re dangerously close to getting caught, that you just couldn’t keep your hands off of each other long enough to get home. Of course, we don’t condone doing anything illegal! Why would […]
Too cold to take it off? How to cozy up when there’s a chill in the air
When it comes to sex, most of us wouldn’t let a blizzard stop us from doing it. But it’s hard to get started when it’s freezing cold, so here are a few ways to warm up when things between you are heating up . Start with a warm shower (or bath if your tub big […]
Shake it up: How to add a little oomph to your weekend
Weekend getaways will work. So will making time to set the mood . Wearing lingerie can do it. So can the right birth control . We’re talking about things that can add some oomph to your love life. But for those of you who’ve been there, tried that…here are a few more things you can […]
Are you blushing? How to make sex (and birth control) less awkward
Just talking about sex and birth control can be seriously awkward. That’s why we asked Charreah Jackson, relationships editor for ESSENCE Magazine , to tackle that subject and dish out some really good advice . But what about the awkward things that happen when you’re actually getting it on? To get past that awkwardness, you’ve […]
Hardcore pelvic floor: A workout routine to keep you fit down there
Pelvic floor muscles support your uterus, bladder, small intestine, and rectum. They contribute to spine stability. They help you not pee when your best friend makes you howl with laughter. They keep the back door shut so you don’t have to know what fecal incontinence is. And strengthening them may help women who have difficulty […]
Time flies (when you’re having great sex)
Wake and quake. Afternoon delight. A midnight booty call. There are 24 hours in a day and every single one of them can be a good time to have sex. But admit it: There are a few hours that you like best. Are you an early riser? Love getting naked in the mid-day sun for […]
What gets in the way of good sex?
Truth: Nobody’s sex life is awesome all the time. Sex itself isn’t even awesome every single time. But, if you feel like something is getting in the way of good sex— something that you’d like to explore —take a look at our list of common issues and let’s see if we can help. Mood. Here […]
4 feet 7 inches of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about sex: Meet Dr. Ruth
She’s like your favorite, tiny grandma, but instead of cookie recipes, you get her tips for better orgasms. We’re talking about Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer , the famous—and beloved—psychosexual therapist who’s been widely featured on radio, TV, Broadway , and board games . Read on to find out why Playboy listed her at #13 on […]
LOL.OMG.WTF. Sex advice from celebrities
Famous people are always good for juicy quotes on sex and relationships. Read on and let us know who got it right and who got it oh so wrong. Cameron Diaz : “The best time of day for sex is anytime because it’s sex.” Drew Barrymore : “Love is the hardest habit to break and […]
First question of the New Year: What’s your pleasure?
In 2011 we encouraged you to upgrade everything from birth control to sex positions . We kicked off 2012 with tips on how to charm the pants off someone . And last year we challenged you to go after anything your heart desires . This year it’s all about pleasure. Why? Because knowing what turns […]
